and just like that it is Friday again
Back to normal service, ie a bit of this and a bit of that. Life continues to be hectic and I am almost always tired. Last week was not the best week and I feel a bit rubbish. I can sympathise with the wee cygnet on my photos, too tired to swim along with his siblings and needing a bit of a ride.
Alistair was pushed down the stairs at school by one nasty piece of s**t. He is fine now but was quite shaken. While I generally agree with re-inforcing positive behaviour policies, the consequences of bullying and/or hurting another child are surprisingly minimal. On this occasion and due to the severity of the incident, the unrepentant assailant was taken aside by the community police officer so hopefully this made enough of an impression to stop further incidents. Alas, I fear not. A lucky collateral of the incident was that the tannoy announcement to call for a first aider was considered enough of a disruption to warrant extra time in any ongoing exams, so Annie got extra time in hers. You know, there is a silver lining and all that... James meanwhile had his bag grabbed in the gym changing rooms by another boy, who put in the shower area and turned-on the tap. I was relieved that James' school iPad was not damaged. He had one broken by another boy, who thought it was funny to throw it on the ground and stomp on it. I kid you not. It is brutal out there if you are different.
On to more positive things. Nature has been putting on a marvellous show this last week. Honestly, I can almost see the plants grow. Everything is green and luscious. If there was a colour to be assigned to each Month, May would be green. I try to be more mindful on my walks and have extended my reach a bit. We are so very lucky here in my neighbourhood. It takes 5 minutes to get to the canal, then it is possible to walk along waterways and through parks for miles. I explored a newly re-opened path parallel to the Kelvin walkway but on the opposite side of the river. It was absolutely breathtaking (and green). The midges are loving it, too.
I got my bike out and cycled down to the opticians earlier this week. Back when there was no pandemic, I cycled to work every day and I miss that short burst of activity first thing and last thing. My bum did not thank me. I suppose I have to gradually build up my saddle tolerance. Although of course there is not much of an incentive to cycle because I don't have to go anywhere. I don't like cycling enough to do it for fun but the bike is a great mode of transport for short distances.
I am the proud wearer of my first pair of varifocal glasses. Still getting used to them but today I noticed moving my head quickly doesn't make me dizzy so probably nearly there. I could get by without those glasses and having them is a real treat, not a real necessity. So nice though being able to chop onions or read a book and look up and chat to somebody or glance into the garden without having to take off the readers (and see everything in focus).
Sam's moving date is nearly here. Next week, he will relocate to York. Richard will drive him and a van full of stuff down. His new flat is unfurnished and he has been scavenging furniture from friends and us. We are not allowed to leave our local area except for essential travel but I assume relocation to another city for work is considered essential enough. In any case and judging by the FB photos that everybody around me is posting, staying local and not meeting friends/family inside is at best ignored. Frustrating for those of us that do care for public health. I look forward to visiting him in York sometime soon.
Annie killed a mouse. She woke up to find it injured next to her bed. She sent a text at 3:26 am asking for help (with photo of mouse attached). I saw it in the morning. I don't know why she didn't call out for us, or call on the phone. Maybe she didn't want to frighten the injured mouse. In the end, she decided she had to put the mouse out of its misery. I didn't want to ask for details but I know a pint glass was involved. Poor Annie, having rubbish parents is not fun. Jack, or designated mouse exterminator was too late to help, too.
I have started sewing jeans shorts. Well, I am using pink needle cord but it is a jeans pattern alright. I might go and finish the fly now.
Thanks for visiting!
P.S. Maybe not so used to the new varifocals just yet....I liberally dusted Alistair's pizza with mixed spice instead of mixed herbs... don't tell him but I rinsed the toppings under the tap, scraped the tomato sauce off and started afresh. He didn't notice the notice the fain whiff of cinnamon coming from his dinner.
It is a glorious time of year isn't it, I absolutely love the greenness of everything down those country lanes. I think it might be my favourite time of year, early summer. I am so sorry about what your boys have been through at school, it really is brutal out there. My youngest lost his PE kit when he was a new Year 7 and the middle boy found it down a toilet. Sigh. He kindly brought it home and put it in the middle of the living room floor on the carpet. Your photos are fantastic, the tiny cygnets are brilliant, especially the one having a ride. Is that your quince tree in blossom? They are so pretty. All full on madness here, work, cricket, feeding people, trying to keep on top of the home/garden stuff, more cricket, more work. My head is spinning. No-one else is lifting a finger to do anything, which is completely normal. Not complaining though, life is good. A big move for Sam and a big moment for you too, I hope you can go and visit him soon and I hope he settles into York and his new job very soon. It's a wonderful city. Hope you have a good bank holiday weekend. CJ xx
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your boys having trouble at school. Hope their friends rally round to make them feel better.
ReplyDeleteWeather is up and down here but it is sunny and cool today to we will work in the yard a bit.
Have a nice weekend!
Poor Alistair. I hope he's okay now. An incident like that was bound to leave him upset and shaken. X
ReplyDeleteSad and disturbing to hear about your son being bullied. I may be out of fashion/behind the times/stupid with saying this, but schools and parents of bullies letting those kids get away with things means that they don't learn about consequences, and become mean adults. Apologies for ranting at you. On a more positive note, you have a lovely eye for photography, your photos are charming xx
ReplyDeleteOh it is a shame when others are treated so badly at school my heart goes out 😒 Lovely plant photos. Here we have short lockdown and so many ignore while we wear masks in the street on our own. Love the sou d of the pizza 👌😁
ReplyDeleteWhat a collection of pics this week!!
ReplyDeleteSorry about the bullying. It must be hard on parents too.
Christina, I am horrified and saddened to hear about the bullying your sons experienced. How awful. I wish there were more severe consequences. Like you, I have been staying local, and haven't met with others indoors. I do enjoy chatting with friends outside, though. Happy sewing...
ReplyDeleteYour poor boys. Being different is not fun at all, still even being neruotypical isn't fun during the middles school ages. Kids can be so, so mean. I am still not sure why they have to be so brutal, girls as well as boys. I think we are pretty tough here, but again we have school shootings and all of that. I am sending positive love to those precious boys of yours. i think your boys and mine need all the love they can get. I know middle school will not be easy for Little Buddy. The flowers in your post are so gorgeous. Stay safe.
ReplyDeleteThat is awful to hear that your boys are being bullied. My eldest is off to middle school next year and I am terrified for him. He is a sweet boy and the world of prepubescent teens is not one for sweet boys.
ReplyDeleteYay for your new glasses but lol at Alistair's pizza.
How horrid for both Alistair and James to experience that sort of behaviour from others at school. I do hope they are ok and you too as their mum x
ReplyDeleteI'm due to go to the opticians very soon and have had varifocals for sometime.Once you get over the giddy rollercoaster feeling they are great. I wouldn't have anything else now.
Lovely photos Christina. Hope this week is better for you x
What awful things to happen to your boys, I work in a school myself and I have to say I am often disappointed by what passes for consequences to such horrid behaviour. School leaders always seem to have all the sympathy for the ones doing the bullying as it is never their fault but some other factor? Well they can't have excuses made for them forever, sorry for the rant but I feel your pain. Poor Annie having to deal with that, I hope she is ok too. take care all of you. x
ReplyDeleteIts all go for you guys. I hate hearing about that kind of unnecessary bully behaviour, it doesn't achieve anything does it but hearing your story shows that it still happens and young people still have a lot to deal with. I know you will support Alistair well. Your garden photos are amazing. I always think of may as GREEN in capital letters. Your pizza ps is hilarious. xx
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry about the bullying I don’t think it does any good when the school does not address it with anti bullying regulations.
ReplyDeletei'm so sorry to hear of the bullying - i took a day off from my class yesterday, as am over unpleasant behaviour between students and i needed a mental break! So many angry kids out there and I am NOT equipped to deal with them.
ReplyDeleteJust catching up Christina. Sorry to hear about you boys’ trouble at school. There are vile teenagers like this in every school in my experience and no easy answers. Your garden looks spectacular. X Doris
ReplyDeletegreat pics, sorry to hear about the boys, hope they are both ok. x
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